Life has a way of presenting crossroads, moments where you’re asked to make decisions that define your values and set the course for your future. My family is at one of those crossroads right now. Next month, we’re selling our home and stepping into the unknown. We’re choosing to transition to a single salary so that my wife, Flor, can stay home with our children—a decision rooted in what feels sacred to us.

This isn’t an easy choice, and it certainly isn’t the most convenient. There’s a lot of uncertainty ahead. We don’t know where we’ll live yet, and letting go of the comfort and security our home provides comes with its challenges. But beneath all the logistics and emotions, there’s a deep clarity: this is the right path for us.

Why We’re Letting Go

The decision to sell our home isn’t just about finances; it’s about alignment. We realized that time is the most valuable thing we can give our children. These early years are fleeting, and we don’t want to hand them over to strangers, no matter how competent or caring those strangers might be. We want to be fully present—to see their firsts, to hear their laughter, to hold space for their emotions as they grow.

By letting go of the house, we’re not losing stability; we’re redefining it. Stability, for us, means creating a foundation of love, attention, and presence. It means trusting that the universe will guide us to the right place where we can continue to nurture our family.

The Sacredness of This Time

There’s something sacred about choosing presence over profit. It’s an act of faith, a belief that what we’re doing matters more than what we’re giving up. These years with our children—their wide-eyed wonder, their unfiltered joy—are irreplaceable. We want to hold these moments close, to be there for them in ways that only we can.

This decision also feels like an offering. By letting go of what’s unnecessary, we’re creating space for what truly matters. It’s a practice of trust—trust in ourselves, in each other, and in the process of life.

Facing the Unknown

Of course, there are moments of doubt. We don’t know where we’ll live yet, and the uncertainty can feel daunting. But every time fear creeps in, I remind myself of our “why.” This choice isn’t about playing it safe; it’s about honoring what feels most aligned with our values.

We’re not walking into the unknown alone. We’re guided by something greater, something that reassures us that the right home will come when the time is right. Letting go is hard, but it’s also freeing. It’s a reminder that life is less about clinging to what we have and more about creating space for what’s next.

Moving Forward Together

This transition isn’t just mine or Flor’s; it’s ours. It’s a shared commitment to our family, to our children, and to the kind of life we want to live. We’re stepping into this new chapter together, with all its uncertainties and all its potential.

As we prepare to sell our home, I feel a mix of emotions: gratitude for what this home has given us, sadness for what we’re leaving behind, and excitement for what’s to come. More than anything, I feel grounded in the knowledge that we’re making this choice from a place of love and intention.

Trusting the Journey

This journey isn’t about perfection; it’s about presence. It’s about trusting that the path we’re walking is the right one, even if we can’t see every step ahead. It’s about letting go of fear and embracing the beauty of what’s possible when you align your life with your values.

To anyone else standing at a crossroads, know this: the unknown is not your enemy. It’s an invitation to trust, to grow, and to create something new. We may not have all the answers, but we have each other. And that’s enough.

Here’s to the sacred transitions, the leaps of faith, and the love that guides us through it all.

Love,

Farris